I know I haven’t explicitly stated this on my blog yet, so let me go ahead and be clear: There is a sexual component to my love of diapers.
When I was in the midst of puberty, the sexual component to my love of diapers was huge and dominant. However, it is actually very small at this time in my life.
Just because it’s small doesn’t mean it should be swept under the rug, though. We (those of us who have one) shouldn’t hide or deny the sexual component to our love of diapers just because it might make it easier for others, even others in the ABDL or incontinence community, to accept us. The fact that the sexual component isn’t all there is, and for lots of us is small, should be good enough to get acceptance. The truth should be good enough.
Plus, think about this. Would you want to come out to someone as a diaper lover but still hide or deny some of your feelings about diapers? That would hurt; you would still have a secret burning inside your chest. And if they accepted every other part of your love of diapers, chances are they would accept the sexual part, too.